tell me

hint-if by any chance u were to b confused in the middle of this post,just kindly proceed to the bold part

i'm intrigued:whats a secret actually?
so here how it came to my mind.

a mindless chat one day end up talking about experiences regarding a trivial matter.
short of a personal experience,one member of the informal colloquy finally quotes another person's experience.what's more,he quote a secret.

"actually john/jane doe once experienced it.he told me.and he told me not to tell anyone."

so,a man told another man,something he suppose to keep secret...people breaks promises.not a new premise.
but he add;

"jgn bgtau dia plak."

uh uh..
so now we're suppose to keep a secret that he told us the secret that he was suppose to keep a secret..get it?
POI your honor, ethically/morally, am I obliged to do that?

conscience aside
i wondered...
If i tell Doe,probably Doe would b annoyed/mad/furious/bengang/etc and..

1. tell me not to tell the Secret keeper,that i told Doe that he told me what Doe had told me.in short i have a secret right?that Doe knew the Secret keeper didn't kept the secret.which Doe would like to keep a secret from Secret keeper that Doe doesnt trust him anymore...
or..
2. i'd be freaked out that Doe would break the Secret keeper's head,so i'd have to ask Doe to keep it a secret...
or...
3. i'd be more freaked out coz the the Secret keeper would break my head for telling his secret,so i'd have to ask Doe to keep it a secret.

hmm.
so,keep it a secret ,will ya?


so tell me,
what's a secret,actually?